My approach combines elements of self-psychology,
interpersonal theory, mindfulness, feminist therapy, DBT, ACT and CBT
techniques.
I believe that we all have a basic drive for growth and
wholeness in connection with others.
But sometimes
events, circumstances, or experiences in our lives can derail us from this
journey.
As we struggle to
make our way in the world, we may develop coping strategies--behaviors or
patterns of relating to ourselves and others--that, over time, can
undermine this process.
All problematic
behaviors develop because we were trying to do the best we could in a
given circumstance. They seemed to help, at least in the short run.
But these behaviors
may continue even though they are no longer useful or even themselves
start to cause additional difficulties.
This can cloud our
path and make it difficult to see where it leads. We may even begin
to doubt that it exists.
When
this happens, we may need help to reclaim our potential for growth and our
joy in connection.
I believe
one of the most important steps in healing is understanding that our problematic
thoughts, behaviors, and patterns of relationship developed because they
were the best we knew how to do at the time. We were trying, with all the resources we had
available, to live the best life we could.
But now,
these strategies no longer help us. They hurt us.
Therapy can help us
develop new ways for meeting our emotional needs that are empowering and
productive rather than disempowering and destructive.
This entails a
process of radical self-exploration that integrates body, mind, and psyche
and works to reclaim a sense of personal authenticity.
In my
practice, I incorporate mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral, and more traditional
“talk therapy” techniques within a socio-cultural perspective to help my
clients understand their present difficulties and open up new potentials for
healing.
My
training and experience as an anthropologist informs my therapeutic
practice in several ways.
Because we are all
social beings, our thoughts and behaviors are influenced not only by our
families of origin, but also by the larger social and cultural
contexts in which we live.
An essential part
of the therapeutic process, then, is exploring the ways in which social
and cultural attitudes (for example, about gender, achievement,
dependence, control, and so forth) inform our emotional and interpersonal
lives.
I understand
my role as therapist as akin to that of midwife.
I have specialized
training and experience, but the power and potential for transformation
and growth resides in each and every client.
I
believe that everyone is capable of change and that tremendous
resiliency and strength reside in all of us.
I consider it a
privilege to facilitate my clients' journeys of self-discovery.
Contact me today for more information or to
schedule an appointment.